Hi,
Before I got on the plane, I needed to replace a crown, get my car fixed, and walked into the Apple Store to have them check my phone.
They ran diagnostics and said I literally needed a new phone right then and there—that it would have died.
By the way, that was intuitive guidance I received, and I listened.
Always listen to those nudges, even if they seem inconvenient.
I wanted to share this with you because often, when we shift our identity and we upgrade quickly, when you upgrade your internal system, your external reality needs to upgrade with you.
And that means the electronics and things that you use heavily that are attached to you.
That can be your phone.
Your computer.
It could be needing new dental work.
It could be repairs with your car.
And sometimes, when we upgrade very quickly, a lot of these things can happen all at once, similar to what happened for me.
I share that with you because this is about energy.
When you ask to upgrade your system, to upgrade your life, the universe needs to reorganize the infrastructure, reorganize people, and reorganize opportunities so that the things you want can magnetize to you.
But in order to do that, things can look like they’re breaking down.
They can feel off.
They can even look like they’re falling apart.
Or you can simply not feel aligned anymore with the gym you go to, the people you hang out with, or specific social activities that once felt completely normal and aligned for you but are no longer resonating with you.
That’s not a bad thing.
I know it can feel disarming.
It can even feel alarming.
But that’s why I wanted to write you this letter.
Because I want to share with you reinvention in real time and what that looks like.
And there are amazing things on the other side.
When things like this occur, we can think we’re going in the wrong direction.
Or that bad things are happening.
Or that we’ve even done something wrong.
Or, “Why did I just ask for more, and now things seem like they’re falling apart?”
But they’re not.
They’re actually coming together.
So if you’ve had this experience, hit reply and let me know.
I want to bring awareness to this because I don’t want you to fear change.
With all things, if you ask to be a millionaire, you have to expand who you’re being to be able to match that frequency and energy.
If you’re asking for your soulmate, again, you have to expand to match that energy.
And with expansion comes growth.
When a child grows, they need more food.
They need more sleep.
Things start to change around them.
Their voice changes.
And you notice all of these things.
It’s the same thing as adults.
So today, when you ask, don’t be afraid.
Start to really see that everything in life is working for you.
When you adopt that one belief, it will change your life.
Because if everything in life is working for you to support you, then you don’t feel like you’re going at life alone.
And you don’t feel victimized by or fearful of what’s occurring.
Instead, you’re excited.
You have faith and trust that what you’re wanting is on its way to you.
And that’s the truth.
That’s what’s actually occurring for you.
Until next week, see life only happening for you.
And bless whatever is going on around you.
Remember…
Rewrite the Rules,
Melissa Kathryn
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