Slim by Summer

You need to see this. Last night I had one of my MK Shows and we talked about how to get Slim By Summer. I’ve heard so many women struggling, having been “good” until the Easter candy hit and it was all downhill from there. Now summer’s coming and their scouring the web for quick […]
Why you want comfort food

I was thinking of you… I spoke with a client, we’ll call her Tammy. Tammy is a new member of my Weight Loss For Life Group program that starts in April. We did a call on connecting her with her cravings. She had many “AHA’s” but the one we just had was HUGE and I […]
Is Your Energy Blocking You from Losing Weight?

Maya Angelou is one of my favorite poets and this quote screams to me for what I teach and also for you. In order to lose weight, and keep it off, to feel amazing in your skin, you have to like yourself. Liking yourself is not depriving yourself, it’s not choosing things from a lack […]
10 Surprising Fat Traps to Avoid

I told myself I was going to be “good”, when I got to the restaurant, that I was not going to have bread or dessert. But I arrived starving and the bread basket was right there. Before I knew it, it’s like my body was on auto pilot and I ended up eating the bread […]
30 Day Challenge

It’s not possible to love you and not love your body. I had a woman say this to me as she asked my why she can’t seem to lose weight. It was clear as day to me she is disconnected. She sees herself as two different women and she also did not love herself. In fact […]
Why Your Mind Is Keeping You Fat

Hear me when I say this . . . You already have your ideal body. You’ve got it. The only thing standing in your way is you; your belief that you can have your ideal body. Living in your ideal body is not just about knowing what to eat or how to move your body. […]
I Am Scared To Share This

I wrote you a poem. To say I’m scared to show you this is an understatement. Am I one or two in the same Who shall I choose A side of perfection Timid trepidation My voice stolen My desires suppressed Perfection is she Yet who shall I be To release the perfectionist in me The […]
Do you love yourself but not your body?

I often hear clients share “Melissa, I do love myself, but not my body”. I respond with …”This is not possible. You cannot truly love yourself AND not like your body.” You are one in the same. You are one being. You can’t view your body in shame to only accept and admire other pieces of […]
What’s your life’s purpose?

And what does this have to do with weight? This week there was a theme among my clients around their purpose, which is natural going into a New Year, because we’re coming out of reflecting on the past and getting clear on the things we desire in 2016. So what does your life’s purpose have […]
What do you really want to happen?

I spoke with a woman who came to me and said… “Melissa, I woke up and don’t recognize my body. I looked in the mirror and I don’t know the woman starting back at me. Where did my waist go? When did I start dressing like I don’t care? This is not the life I […]